My Sis's Wedding/ 7 June 2013

Here we go!

The End...
Pictures Speak Louder than any words..

im engaged with YOU..yes You!

I am engaged to the most precious wonderful man and I can’t quite believe it…

Thank You!

31 May 2013/Friday...Fabulous Friday!

How To Love Your Mother~

1.

If your mother lives far from you, call your mother. Then a few days later, call her again. Then call her again. Call to listen to her. Find out about what she's doing, ask her questions and listen again. The most important thing you can give her is your time, to hear about her life and care about how she's feeling and what she's doing. Just listen to the sound of her voice. It's a reassuring and you probably know it by heart. If you let it, it doesn't matter what she's saying. The sound alone can nurture you.

2

If your mother lives far, write her a letter or arrange a trip to go and see her and spend time with her. If your mother lives close, or with you, set aside ten minutes every day to visit with her. Just a quick phone call, or if she's with you in person, stop and chat with her. Give her your full attention. Find at least one thing to compliment her genuinely on. Enjoy seeing her face, and loving her.

3

If you see your mother every day, hug her every day. If you see her once a week, hug her at least three times during your visit to see her. Give her as much of your affection as you both can take.

4

Draw, write or make something special for your mom. Create a card, or knit a scarf, draw a picture or write down a memory of a time you both shared that was meaningful to you. While you're creating your homemade gift to her, think about all the things you like about her, the things that make you glad she's your mom. You might be surprised once you focus on the good, how much good will come to you, all the bad and annoying things filtering out. Feel her good qualities, the times she made you feel good, or surprised you. Even if your scarf comes out lumpy or your brownies taste really bad, your heart will be opened with all the thoughts of love for your mom.

5

Mail or present your gift to your mom. While you are sharing it with her, tell her some of the good things you were thinking about her while you were making the gift. Celebrate the gift and your mom by giving her a hug.

6

Try to think of one thing a week you can do special for your mom. Asking her out to the movies or dinner, spending time talking on the phone, treating her to a manicure or a pedicure. Find out what really makes her feel good and see if you can help make her days sparkle.

7

Go to sleep at night knowing you are highlighting the love you have for your mom, and helping to deepen the bond you share in hopes of a more open, happier and gentle relationship. She gave you life. Enjoy her!

Read more: How to Love your Mother | eHow.com http://www.ehow.com/how_2101150_love-your-mother.html#ixzz1aC6BzCdO

i M yoU...!

Your absence has gone through me
Like thread through a needle
Everything I do is stitched with its color.
~W.S. Merwin, "Separation"

a "sorry" letter for you ~

Sorry if I haven't contacted you in so long~
~Sorry for not responding to your messages~
~Sorry if you thought I never cared - truth be known I do~
~Sorry for not checking out and visit you when you're sick that day~
~Sorry for not being more understanding~
~Sorry for loving you to much~
~Sorry for loving you to little~
~Sorry for not being there for you when you needed a friend~
~Sorry for logging off just to make you mad~
~Sorry for coming back when you still were mad~
~Sorry if I disturbed you when busy~
~Sorry for making you feel vulnerable~
~Sorry if I freaked you out~
~Sorry if I became possessive at times~
~Sorry if I lied :-(~
~Sorry for leading you to believe I was something I wasn't~
~Sorry if you feel sorry~
~Sorry about the time I got upset with you~
~Sorry for blaming you for how I felt~
~Sorry for blaming you for how You felt~
~Sorry for pushing you away my Friend~
~Sorry for being ignorant~
~Sorry for ignoring you - we have been online friends forever~
~Sorry for treating you mean, we did love one another at one stage
~Sorry for all the little things I missed~
~All in All I am just Sorry my Friend~

S.O.R.R.Y..a sad smiley ~dedication for my dearest friend

Special Needs Children..~

SPECIAL 
S  -   Spend time getting to know me

P-   Please be patient with me. I may not be able to do the things your child can.

E  -   Enjoy learning about what I have and what is wrong with me so that you will understand.

C  -   Care about what my parents tell you about how I communicate.

I  -   Imagine if your child had problems then realize what my parents feel.

A -  Always be kind to people who are disabled. We are just like you, with things that didn't develop right or because of an accident.

L -   Listen to me, I may be hard to understand but if you take the time you can understand me. Learning is very hard for me. I may not be at my age level.

NEEDS

N  -   Never blame my parents they didn't do anything wrong they didn't cause me to be this way.

E  -   Encourage my parents they need it.

E  -  Entertain me, so that my parents can have a night off.

D -   Distraction is part of my life daily. I'm on the go all the time. I never slow down. I get into everything and time out doesn't work with me. Because I can't sit still. I try, but I can't.

S  -   Screaming is what I do when I can't handle what is going on around me, and I get upset because I want to tell you what is wrong but I can’t. 

CHILD


C  -  Communication is very hard for me. I may use sign language, gestures, words, communication boards, and time line boards.

H  -  Helping me understand input is part of my parent's lives 24-hours a day.

I  -  Imagine not being able to hug your child, even though your child wants to be hugged. But your child can't handle it. Sometimes hugs hurt and sometimes they don't.

L  -  Lights sometimes cause me to act up very badly. But once the lights are out, I'm able to calm down, and I am good. The lights were too much input for my brain to understand it all.

D  -  Disabled means doing something different then someone else, sometimes with aid, sometimes with special equipment, and sometimes with therapy.

Credit to  Bea Rosencutter .

sshh..Dont get too emotional~

its pretty weird to see many people get anger , fight, envy without proper ethics , speak their mind across the normal line , and always complaining about minor matter..etc..

why is that ??..

can we just swallow it ..

many of us need others' attention and seek for cares ..but please , do it properly ..

i have seen so much things ..do we speak our mind ..or eat at people??..( literally )

i  believe our minds are the most powerful things we have, yet each one seems to be a bit different. We all have different thoughts, ideas, values, and beliefs about the world and how we should live in it. I personally think it’s great, because the more diversity we have in our thoughts and beliefs, the more we have to learn from each other. I believe that everyone’s perspective has something valuable to offer; for the same reason, it pains me to see people not speak their minds when they may have something important to add to the discussion.

However..there are the things that we should not speak it up..and dont get too emotional about it..

dont just let it go..post it everywhere..especially on social or public utilities..

be calm and think deeply before address it...

be grateful and dont easily get mad on anything..

be mature and wise..

this is not kind of entry that that telling you when you speak and when you shouldnt..but you have to explore it yourself..

find your own balance.